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Sympathy Words and Sayings Examples

 

Sympathy words and sayings are designed to relieve a small portion of the grief that a family or friend may experience when losing a loved one. The right words of sympathy delivered in a heartfelt and thoughtful way can let a person know that others care for them or are also saddened by their loss. The mutual sharing of the burden of grief forges a bond between humans like no other event can. Though a sad occasion by nature, a glimmer of hope can be injected into the lives of the bereaved through carefully written sympathy words and sayings.

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Sympathy Words and Sayings

Sympathy Sayings

 

The Art of Crafting Sympathy Words and Sayings

You don't have to be a poet or wordsmith to craft meaningful sympathy words and sayings, the samples we have provided above will help you to form your own personal affections. It is important however that you are aware of some important considerations before you set pen to paper and send your own personal condolences.

The remainder of this article will be devoted to helping you choose the right words for the particular circumstance you face, after which you will be fully equipped to compose your own sympathy words and sayings.

Tips and Guidelines for Composing Sympathy Words and Sayings

The most important thing to keep in mind when composing sympathy words and sayings is to speak fully from the heart. Write what you're feeling, and incorporate the few rules of etiquette that follow.

  1. Express your sorrow at their loss. The whole idea of sympathy words and sayings is to let the bereaved know that someone else shares their sorrow for the loss of their loved one.
  2. Keep your message short and thoughtful. Recognize their loss and offer your support.
  3. Mention the deceased by name. This makes your sympathy words and sayings more personal, and emphasizes the deceased's humanity.
  4. Share a memory if you have one. If you remember an uplifting or humorous quality of the deceased mention it briefly. People like to hear inspiring or funny things about the special person they've lost.
  5. Sign the card using your full name. It's good to use your complete name (surname and first) in case another friend or family member shares your given name. This way the bereaved will know exactly who it came from, and makes it easier to thank you when the time comes.

What NOT to say in your Sympathy Message

There are also certain things you should not mention when composing sympathy words and sayings. They are:

  • Any disagreements or other personal issues the bereaved and deceased may have had with each other or yourself
  • Any personal religious beliefs
  • Any monetary issues, whether offering financial help or regarding monies you may have been owed by the deceased or bereaved
  • Clichés such as; "they are better off now", or "I know how you feel" (even if you might)

You can also include a short verse or poem in your sympathy words and sayings. A short poem expressing a sentiment about the deceased, a place they loved to visit, or a special quality they had is much appreciated and appropriate. Have a look through our Sympathy Poems if you choose to do so, where we have some beautiful traditional prose that you can choose from.

You now have an excellent grasp of how to craft your sympathy words and sayings. Have a final look through our sympathy words examples above, and use them along with our tips and guidelines to compose meaningful sympathy words and sayings that speak from the heart.

 
 
 
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